LOVE is not a NIGHTMARE!!!!

Oh my! It feels so great to pen my words here after a really long time. A very very happy new year to everyone. :-)
                And yay, my birthday is around the corner, so i am really a happy bunny now. In this post , i am going to pen few words about love and marriage. I am meeting people who says " NO love, NO pain" hearts recently. So you may get a doubt whether i am in love, so if you ask me , obviously i will say NO , really a BIG NOOOO.
                   Love is not a bad thing , it's definitely not a nightmare.
A incident happened recently . so that made me to pen my thoughts about this "World youth's most raved TOPIC".
   I don't have siblings but i have few good souls as my sisters and brothers.I was chatting with my brother in whatsapp recently . I was mocking him to marry soon , so that i can take leave and enjoy the great south Indian meal(You must try it if you haven't tried it . My absolute love). He said he is not interested in love anymore(His past life made him to think like that ). I was asking him why and he was telling the reason. This happened with my few friends also. I would say "Love is beautiful when you find your true better half" .
   When you was 15 or 16 , your harmones would have played a vital role and you might have fallen in love. You would have felt the most wonderful feeling.You won't listen to your parents.When you went through the "BREAKUP phase" , It would have pulled you down.So, do you think the love you had in your 15 or 16 is worthy to think bad about love or marriage? . Definitely NOT.Think it's a lesson taught by the Supreme Power ( we call him GOD).Definitely , the girl/boy you loved will be a angel to his/her future partner. Why you want to ruin your beautiful life for your Harmones mistake? ITS NOT YOUR MISTAKE. :P
    One of my friend who is in 21,her parents are searching for a groom.But she says " She does'nt want to get married(Because of her past). What i did was , gifted her a novel which tells about "Marriage and its importance". You should have looked at her reaction.My god!:P

Love is beautiful. Examples are our own parents. Its not a nightmare. I wish all of you a very happy life with your love. :D
Ps. you will ask me when is mine. definitely after 3-4 years . yay. :D

That moment

Hey people. It's been a long time since i posted. I really missed my blog. Before that, I really wish you all a very Happy new year. :)

          India is full of mixed emotions. We give importance to our relationships than any other things. Today, i was watching my favourite Television program. In that program, the main actress will leave her parents and will be going to her husband's home after her marriage. Her parents will send the Actress to her In- law's house with lots of tears in their eyes.. They are both residing in same apartments though the girl and her parents cried. That's something touched my heart so much. Girls(Ladies) will sacrifice everything and will go to their husband's home.Guys should know the importance that their wives have come to their home leaving their beloved parents. As i am in twenty, People have started to ask about my marriage which is going to happen in some years.After seeing that particular scene my heart was in pain.(That particular moment)
Though, every girl in her life will meet that particular situation in their life. I asked my mom whether she will cry like that girl's mother who was crying by seeing her daughter going to her In-law's house. She told a big "NO" and  She said she feels really pity for my future husband. (how rude? :P)



Every girl will undergo this situation and Guys should treat their wives like a queen and in return, girls will make their home , a very sweet home. :) :)

Divya <3

Scared about my future..

As i am doing my final year  , literally scared of my future. My heart is working like a Pendulam which moves in to and fro movement. WHAT TO DO NEXT???  Its a big question towards me.
I have passion about music. OH should i travel in music line ?? or Higher education ?? Really pathetic.Every people will say something. BUT my dear friends, I always tell you to decide your future by your own.

   I want to go in music line where as my parents wants me to do higher studies. I have  a question mark which i really want to select. WOOF, sometimes people are making me to think why i am grown up to a lady. I just want the golden days where i was a very small kiddo :)
But the sad part is, it can't come again in our life.

WHATEVER IT IS , LIFE HAS TO MOVE ON.... :)

Atleast once i should meet her...

This blog is really a personal one of mine.I really want to speak to a female very badly .
Her name is related to MUSIC in sanskrit. She is originally from " LAND OF KINGS" or "LAND OF KINGDOMS"and She is settled in "GARDEN CITY OF INDIA" or "SILICON CITY OF INDIA". I have really heard that she is a good human. She also made the persons like that she talked to. She is the reason , where i got the most precious thing in my life. She really have made the persons to a good one like her. I heard that she is a down-to-earth person.Like that, i have heard many good things about her where i am really quite opposite in everything.

I wish i should meet her once or just a ordinary chat with her once. I really haven't been so crazy to talk with a girl. Some sweet people couldn't still forget her. Moreover, she is the reason for my pains , indirectly.

One day, i should talk with her. This is one of my wish which i pray to god always.I wish i should have been born as her. LUCKY GIRL.

summer

Summer vacation

Its summer time. We always look for air conditioner all the time.

Here are the tips to hydrate ourselves naturally :)

*Intake of green vegetables will be very good for this hot and humid climate.

* Drink a lot of water. (at least 6 -8 glasses of water a day)  It will keep you hydrated and cool.

*Intake of fruits especially which has CITRIC ACID like oranges and lemons will be really effective on this summer.

* If you want to enjoy sun, you will be scared over harsh effect on skin. Don’t worry. Apply sunscreen before stepping out from the house( 20 mins before)

*Some homemade tips for a flawless skin during summers:

     +Turmeric (  known as kasthuri manjal) can be mixed with milk or curd(which has lactic acid ) and make it into a paste. Now apply on the face leaving sensitive parts like mouth and eyes, keep it for 15-20 minutes and wash it with lukewarm water and you will see good results.

      +Fuller’s earth ( Popularly known as multhani matti ) is a kind of natural mud which can be used for treatments on skin. Mix multhani matti with rose water and apply it on the face . leave it for 15-20 minutes. Wash it with lukewarm water. Oily skin people can be used often for greater results.

        +I am going to share one of most effective tip which was shared by one of my friend ( my nice sister too ) :)

Mix turmeric , besan( gram powder)and horse gram powder( kollu paruppu) with curd or yogurt .Make it into a fine paste. Apply it on the face  leaving sensitive parts like mouth and eyes. Keep it for the same duration as mentioned in the above. It will be really effective. You can see good results within a month.

 Scrubbing : You can scrub your face and body by using sugar granules and lemon juice. Mix the sugar granules and lemon juice . Now , apply it on the exposed skin over the sun. Massage it with circlular motions followed by up-down movements using your fingertips. Wash it with lukewarm water after 15 minutes and you will have instant glowing skin.:)

 I hope you enjoyed the post :)

Happy summer :)

I know its quite late .. almost summer is over but still we can use this tips for flawless skin :)

delicious dish made by me :)

                   It was a wonderful morning. I was gazing out of my window . I looked people were busy going for work and some kids, for mid-school.I plugged on my DVD player and was listening to nice romantic music. It was a nice start listening to music.And i was feeling loved. :) 
                  
                 I was texting in my mobile (feeling loved). I felt it would be nice if i have a yummy breakfast. Well , i went to the kitchen.  I took some common ingredients. But , i felt the regular idly and dosa was boring. So , i had an idea. I took some wheat flour. I was kinda not used to it but just want to try some new recipe. So here comes the ingredients i used for delicious dosa using wheat flour.


INGREDIENTS:
Wheat flour- two cup for two dosa( randomly)
Pepper powder- two pinch 
jeera( cumin seeds) - 1 sp
green chilli (into small pieces)- three in number
onion (big)- one 
salt- for taste
water-two glasses

I mixed all the ingredients to like a dosa batter. I made the dosa in a pan using the same methods we use for preparing dosa. I used idly chilli powder as sideish. It was really fab. I really liked it :)

How to Look Good without Makeup - Natural Skin Care

The secret to looking good and beautiful without makeup exists and is possible for anyone and everyone.

Women are generally scared to leave the house without any makeup because they think their face will look terrible without any makeup on. That’s not true. 

Read these simples tips to make your skin glow and look flawless, NATURALLY. Also, going makeup-free some days and still getting compliments will make you feel more confident about yourself.

·                     Believe in your Inner Beauty - Let's start with the most basic part - believing in yourself and your inner charm. No matter how much makeup you apply or how well you dress up, if you don't feel confident or if you don't love yourself, no other person would be able to feel the same for you. So, first things first, Start Loving Yourself. 

If going makeup-free all at once is too much for you, start adapting the change slowly by going for a minimal-makup look ie. just applying a kaajal or mascara and a touch of lip balm .

 Most of us neglect the importance of a proper skincare regime to protect our skin from daily damage most of the times. But, the key to looking good naturally is following your skincare regime religiously which should include the basic mantra - Cleansing, Toning and Moisturizing. You should cleanse your face twice daily (once you get up in the morning and again before you go to sleep), and also exfoliate your skin regularly to maintain its health.

Try to use herbal or organic products as they are skin-friendly and do not cause any side effects. And of course never forget to apply sun screen

 *Have a Nutritious Diet - Eating healthy and drinking atleast 7-8 glasses of water daily would make your skin naturally healthy and youthful. You should include as many fruits and vegetable in your diet as possible to balance your diet. 

Also, try to include green tea in your daily diet as it is rich in antioxidants and helps making your skin fresh and young.

·                     Personal Grooming - Often neglected by many, personal grooming is the most important step to look beautiful and confident. Regularly go for those salon sessions to trim your eyebrows, wax unwanted hair and manicure/pedicure.

·                     Proper Hair Care - Whether you love keeping your hair open all day long or keep them secured in a bun, you should wash your hair regularly and get them trimmed at regular intervals to get rid of split ends. 

·                     Exercise Daily – You don’t need a gym membership, weights or personal trainer to help you lose those excess kilos. Also, no matter what your weight or body type is, it is essential to exercise daily to maintain your health and be physically fit. Walking is one of the easiest exercises to stay fit, and brisk walking for atleast 30 minutes daily can lift your mood while keeping you healthy and improving the quality of your life.

·                     Pamper Yourself - Pamper yourself every now and then by indulging in shopping, eating your favorite cuisine at a restaurant or simply taking a day off from work and relaxing at home with your favorite music and book. This would surely pump you up, and keep those stress lines far away. A happy and relaxed you will surly glow from the inside out.

The above tips will be really helpful for our day-to-day stressed life. Our ancestors have followed the fact of getting oil bath –twice in a week which makes your body cool, relaxed and what not, A beautiful glowing skin and  long hair. Like this , we have lots of therapies to look younger and to get a good looking skin.

Divya